How to have Threesome Sex: What is a 3way, Tips and Basic guide

So, you want to make your taboo a real fun time. Finally, you passed the hard part and have decided to try out threesome sex. Your partner is also convinced or better (s)he was already ready for it. Congratulations!! It is lots of fun, I assure you. Inviting a third friend to your sex life will fulfill many of your desires, will satisfy you much better, and give you more pleasure. Almost all men and according to one survey one-third of women has an interest in threeway sex.  

  Let’s first answer “what is a threesome?”

It is obvious in fact. Threesomes are a group of people   involving in sex. A threesome is not necessarily how happens in porn. It is not all about penetration and double penetration. It is about the sex you enjoy as you desire. All three participants involve in threesome positions they like to have and have fun.

Threesomes work for people of all genders and sexualities. All possible types are enjoyable according to your preference;

Male-male-female (MMF) threesome

Male-female-female (mff) threesome

Male-male-male threesome

Female-female-female Threesome

Things to Consider Before Trying Threesome

  So, how to have a threesome? 

The first type of threesome occurs when three random people who are not romantically linked come together. This type is usually unplanned. you are all hanging out at a party, did drink a bit much and oops, you are on each other. Maybe you are out with a friend and meet a stranger and attraction brought all three of you together.

If any two of the participants are romantically together, can be dating or married, it is another dimension.  

The first thing to be done is to have serious talk with your partner. Jealousy will always be a potential problem. Someone naked will be on your naked partner!! How will you feel about it at that moment? Ok, You will also be *ucking two at the same time but, still. The same thing applies to your partner. Both of you should be ok with this. 

Whom will you invite? 

Now if you are both ok with threesome sex, it is time to decide who will be the third. 

A friend maybe? You Would you invite a friend from the workplace. Maybe the girl next door is a naughty one and you were dreaming about her for a while.  

Choosing an Ex-girlfriend or ex-boyfriend may have benefits. As ex-ones know each other well already, things may be more fun. All three will get used to each other pretty faster than just another person. The trick here is your partner should perfectly ok with your ex. Also, consider that your relation with your partner may not be very strong all the time. When some things are not ok, your ex will be a problem.. Well, your ex may also be problematic herself and cause trouble. 

A dating site is another option to choose a partner. Register as a couple or solo and specify you are looking for someone as a couple. This way will help you keep your sex life private and secret. I mean no one from your environment will know what you are into. Unless they are on that site. 

If you want to find someone and meet quickly, you can look for a Unicorn on Tinder. A Unicorn is someone who is ok with 3ways.

There are some applications specialized in kink or open relations. You can find a couple or a single who is interested just in this type of fun.

Of course, any other dating application can help you to find someone for a good night but make sure you specify who you are and what you are looking for. 

It is a good idea to have a meeting/date before getting into a fun night. Asking questions and getting to know each other will make the night more pleasant. Setting some boundaries, deciding what is ok what is not ok will avoid awkward situations. 

Basic Threesome Terminology, Just a few but not all

UNICORN

A Unicorn is the omnisexual (pansexual or bisexual) person who is down to hook up with both persons of the couple in an NSA (no strings attached) three-way. 

GUEST STAR

The guest star is similar to a unicorn. The term suggests that the third one who joins the couple receives the majority of attention.

DAISY CHAIN

This is just like 69-ing but 3 people involved version. Everyone simultaneously giving and receiving oral sex.

DOUBLE PENETRATION

This is a sex act that one person having one or more “holes” -anus, mouth, or vagina- filled with two things. These things can be penis, dildo, any sex toy, or fingers. 

Some Tips in your Threesome Kink

  1. It is not a porn

This is all about having fun altogether. Do not attempt to try to do everything you watched at your first meeting. Leave your camera at home and enjoy the night

2. Be prepared to laugh

There will probably moments you do not know what you do. Funny moments will happen. Let it be and just laugh and have fun.

3. Be more open-minded

Threesome sex will be out of your comfort zone. You can be shy. This is all perfectly normal. Just be determined to break outside the comfort zone. If you haven’t kissed a girl before, do it. Or slap the guy’s ass. Don’t break any hard limits but enjoy the moment.

4.Do not pair off

Even if you like one more than the other, remember this is a 3way. Do not leave the third one out of the game as it is a real buzzkill. Even a stroke or a touch, while you are busy, can be good enough for the moment. Pay attention to both

5.Stay hygiene

This can be hard during the sex but necessary. If you are using a condom or any toys, be sure you change or clean them for the other partner. This will reduce the risk of any infection.

6.Swingers,Cuckolds, group sex,orgies

OK! These are a bit different from just threesome sex but can be more fun also. Keep them as alternatives for the future. If you are joining a Swinger party, you can have a lot of fun with these swinger party games

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