I remember my first prostate orgasm as I had it yesterday. It was very intense and strong that I felt I never had sex or orgasm before. And my prostate orgasm was given by a massage therapist who knows how to give a prostate massage.
Although I am not into a full anal play as a guy, discovering prostate orgasm was a new experience and dimension for pleasure to me. And the cum ejaculated
WHAT IS PROSTATE and What does Prostate do?
The prostate, aka P-Spot, is a gland in the male reproductive system that produces the prostatic fluid that mixes with sperm to form ejaculate (or semen). In addition to its role in the reproductive system, the prostate can be stimulated for sexual pleasure and produce intense orgasms. It is because it is surrounded by nerve endings that make you feel “good” when touched in the right way.
Where is a Man’s G-Spot (same as P-spot)
Located in front of the rectum, between the bladder and the penis. It is about two inches inside the rectum, between the rectum and the penis. The prostate includes muscles that expel semen through the urethra during ejaculation. The prostate has three (3) zones
- The peripheral zone; is 75% of the prostate
- The central zone; Around 5-8% of the prostate
- In the transitional zone; 20% of the prostate
How to find Prostate?
You need to go down to the area of the anal region.
Although entering through rear entry is the direct way to the prostate, it can be stimulated through the perineum, or taint.
What is a prostate orgasm?
Prostate orgasm is simply the intense pleasure you receive from the stimulation of the prostate gland.
Some other common phrases for prostate orgasm are: “Prostate Milking” and “Prostate Massage
Who can have Prostate Orgasms?
Sorry, it is not for everybody. Only cisgender men and people who are male at birth have the prostate. So if you are one of these lucky folks, you have the asset for the prostate orgasm.
What does a prostate orgasm feel like?
P-Spot orgasms are different than penile orgasms. Stimulating the prostate usually gives more intense orgasms although some people feel uncomfortable with the stimulation.
Not everyone ejaculates with the stimulation. There can be no semen coming sometimes. My first prostate orgasm made me ejaculate and to be honest, I guess I never ejaculated that much in my life before.
Will prostate Orgasm Hurt?
Minor discomforts are normal at the beginning. Also, Some scratchings sen sensitivity may occur for a few days after stimulating the prostate. You (or your partner) should adjust the sensation and pressure of the stimulation. There should be no severe pain.
How to get started?
Being relaxed and aroused as much as possible is what you want at the beginning. Because it will make the entry much easier and make the pleasure more intense for prostate orgasm.
Before you start all the play, be sure you emptied all your pee and poo. Still, prostate stimulation may give you the feeling you want to pee while anal penetration can cause the sensation of needing to poo.
The poo coming out of your butt can be a bit no-no for you. Taking a shower before the play and paying attention back there with extra attention will pay off. Some people use an enema before the anal play, in case you want to try.
Before inserting a finger into anüs and searching the prostate, wear a disposable la”tex glove or a condom on your finger. In this way, you will be preventing the bacterias on your hand to be introduced into the rectal passage. Also, the glove will give the sensation of smoothness compared to fingers alone and entrance.
Do not forget the lubrication.
It will make the entrance and sliding easier and more relaxing. Dry entrance will reduce the pleasure of prostate orgasm. While water-based lubes are easier to clean later, silicone-based lubes are long-lasting.
Have your prostate orgasm alone or enjoy it with a partner, safety and hygiene come first. Avoid long nails as they will scratch or tear the skin in and around the anüs.
Wash hands appropriately before having a prostate massage.
If you will receive prostate milking from your partner, some foreplay sex will relax anus muscles. Showering together counts as foreplay too and you both will be clean for the play.
DO NOT engage in prostate massage in case you have fissures or hemorrhoids. Doing so will most probably cause bleeding and increase the risk of infections.
Side effects and dangers of Prostate milking
Although the stimulation of the Male G-Spot gives intense orgasms, you should be careful while applying the pressure. Too much pressure may hurt the prostate gland. Below are some other risks that prostate massage has;
If you have acute prostatitis, massage can make it worse. Potentially it may cause blood poisoning as a risk of spreading the infection.
Bleeding around the prostate is another risk you have.
You may cause cellulitis which is a skin infection
Spreading of prostate cancer, if there is a present one.
Rectal skin damage
Techniques to try for Prostate Orgasm
It will take time to find the way how to have the best orgasm. As everybody is different, different styles of massages will give different results for everybody. By experimenting with speed, pressure, and moves, you will find the best way that works for you.
Below are some tips and techniques to try for prostate stimulation;
Come hither. Insert your finger into the anüs slowly. You already lubed that finger, right? Ok. And now curl the finger upward in a “come hither” motion toward the belly button. Increase the speed gradually as pleasure is building up.
The Doorbell. Place the pad of the finger against the outside of the prostate. Just like you are pressing a doorbell, gently make pressure. To find out what works well, try different pressures and holding intervals. Harder or softer pressures, longer or softer holdings.
Make Circles. Place the finger over the prostate gland and make circles all around the gland. Changing speed and pressure to find the perfect combo to have the best prostate orgasms.
Anal Sex Toys for Prostate Orgasm
Below are some sex toys for stimulating the prostate both in solo play or sex with a partner.
- Vibrating Prostate massagers. You can control the massager by using the app on your mobile. USB chargeable or battery versions available.
- Butt plugs.
- Vibrating butt plugs
- Butt Plugs and Prostate massagers with cock rings